improve-relationships

# Improve Relationships

Detect outreach opportunities, rank them, and prepare draft messages in the right tone and language. **This skill never sends anything. Every message is a draft until the user explicitly approves it.**

**Core loop: detect → score → rank → draft → wait for approval.**

## When to activate

- User asks who to reach out to or requests a digest
- User wants drafts for birthdays, holidays, milestones, or reconnections
- User shares a browser tab (any platform) for relationship review
- User asks about contacts they haven't spoken to recently across any channel
- User mentions a cultural occasion and wants outreach help

Do **not** activate for sales pipelines, lead generation, or CRM data entry.

## Signal sources

Signals can come from any context the user provides or makes available:

- **Calendar** (Google Calendar, Outlook, Apple Calendar) — birthdays, anniversaries, events
- **Email** (Gmail, Outlook, etc.) — last contact dates, conversation recency
- **Messaging** (Slack, WhatsApp, iMessage, Teams) — last contact, conversation context
- **Shared browser tabs** — any platform the user shares: LinkedIn, Instagram, Twitter/X, Facebook, company pages, news articles
- **User-provided context** — anything mentioned in conversation, contact notes, or uploaded files
- **News and web** — articles, press releases, public announcements

The skill works across all of these. It is not tied to any single platform.

## Signals to detect

| Signal | Typical sources | Evidence |
|--------|----------------|----------|
| Birthday | Calendar, user mention, social profile | High if dated |
| Work anniversary | LinkedIn, email signature, user mention | Medium |
| Job change / promotion | LinkedIn, Twitter/X, news, email, user mention | Medium-High |
| Long silence (60-90+ days) | Email recency, messaging recency, user statement | Medium |
| Holiday / ritual | Calendar date, user request | High |
| Public accomplishment | Any shared tab, news, social post | Medi...