mediator

# Mediator Skill

Emotional firewall for difficult relationships. Intercepts messages from configured contacts, strips out emotional content, presents just the facts, and helps draft measured responses.

## Quick Start

```bash
# Initialize config (creates mediator.yaml if missing)
~/clawd/skills/mediator/scripts/mediator.sh init

# Add a contact to mediate
~/clawd/skills/mediator/scripts/mediator.sh add "Ex Partner" \
  --email "ex@email.com" \
  --phone "+15551234567" \
  --channels email,imessage

# Process incoming (usually called by cron/heartbeat)
~/clawd/skills/mediator/scripts/mediator.sh check

# List configured contacts
~/clawd/skills/mediator/scripts/mediator.sh list

# Remove a contact
~/clawd/skills/mediator/scripts/mediator.sh remove "Ex Partner"
```

## Configuration

Config lives at `~/.clawdbot/mediator.yaml`:

```yaml
mediator:
  # Global settings
  archive_originals: true      # Archive raw messages after processing
  notify_channel: telegram     # Where to send summaries (telegram|slack|imessage)
  
  contacts:
    - name: "Ex Partner"
      email: "ex@email.com"
      phone: "+15551234567"
      channels: [email, imessage]
      mode: intercept          # intercept | assist
      summarize: facts-only    # facts-only | neutral | full
      respond: draft           # draft | auto (dangerous)
      
    - name: "Difficult Client"  
      email: "client@company.com"
      channels: [email]
      mode: assist             # Don't hide originals, just help respond
      summarize: neutral
      respond: draft
```

### Modes

- **intercept**: Archive/hide original, only show summary. User never sees raw emotional content.
- **assist**: Show original but also provide summary and response suggestions.

### Summarize Options

- **facts-only**: Extract only actionable items, requests, deadlines. No emotion.
- **neutral**: Rewrite the message in neutral tone, preserving all content.
- **full**: Show everything but flag emotional/manipulative language.

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